10 December 2022

Abortion, Beliefs and Freedom of Religion

"Virginia State Delegate Marie March (R) has pre-filed House Bill 1395, a law that would define life as beginning at fertilization."

Abortion seems like such a contentious issue but I only disagree with three groups of people regarding this topic. I suspect that you share my disagreement with two of these groups, perhaps all three.

1. People who think that egg or sperm - because they are alive and because they are human - are the same as human life. That's just silly. Trillions of eggs and sperms perish every day and no one cares. Sperm and egg are the garbage of life.

2. People who think that newborns aren't yet human and don't deserve to be treated as such. A newborn is human life and the fact that they can't go to the kitchen to make a sandwich and feed themselves is no excuse for treating them as anything less than precious.

3. People who think that they know the instant when the garbage of life becomes precious life, who will dictate to you when you feel like you can treat this as a pregnancy that you may not want to continue versus when you want to treat this as a little person who you will do all you can to bring into this world and nurture.

At the core of freedom of religion is this really important idea: no matter whether you are so convinced of your belief that you literally think people who don't embrace it will spend eternity in torment, you still need to respect their beliefs as being just as real and important to them as your belief is to you.

Freedom of religion rests on respect for opinions that you find ludicrous because you want the same respect paid to your personal beliefs (that some other people will certainly find ludicrous). The reason why religious fundamentalists tend to be the ones protesting the right to abortion is because they are the people least able to acknowledge that very real and very vivid beliefs that they hold might actually be wrong. Freedom of religion requires a certain humility even from true believers, whether they are atheist or Muslim, Catholics or Scientologists. "Knowing" the instant the garbage of life becomes the treasure of life, when egg and sperm are equivalent to a baby, and "knowing" that everyone else is wrong about that instant shows a lack of humility that is wildly inconsistent with a community that practices freedom of religion, a respect for differences in opinion even about really important issues like when life begins (do you believe it begins at conception? three months after conception? 6 months?) or when life ends (at death? when the last person who knew us dies or has forgotten us? never?).

The beauty of the modern world is that we've learned to respect personal beliefs without believing that everyone else must hold our own beliefs. The group I disagree with most? The group who believe that their beliefs are the only beliefs that should be legal. It's a very medieval concept and has no place in a country that was a marvelous invention of Enlightenment philosophers in part invented to grant freedom of religion and thought.

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